The Four Horsemen - Are They a Part of Your Relationship or Partnership?
Six months into my second marriage, we were screaming at each other, calling each other names, walking away, threatening divorce and wondering why we ruined the good thing we had for the past two years by getting married? Twenty-six years later we argue much differently and remain happily married to our best friend because we made a choice 26 years ago to work at our relationship and yes, it takes work.
Here is why you may choose to coach around your relationship:
One or both of you verbally attack your partner/spouse/significant others personality or character.
One or both of you attack the other with insults.
One or both of you blame the other and finally, one or the other walks away or out of the room to avoid conflict and choose to put distance between you for fear you will say something you regret.
If this sounds like some aspects of your relationship...my complimentary, confidential, exploratory coaching call may be a great starting point for you and your significant other. Click here
Relationships take work and not everyone knows how to make a marriage or significant relationship work. We often treat our partner the same way we experienced growing up and yet, who said this is the “only” way or “right” way? Maybe you grew up and heard your parents arguing all the time or worse yet, calling each other names. So, you vow to be different in your relationships and yet when you argue, you’re sure you’re right and your partner is wrong! You text back and forth and yup it still sounds like you’re right. You dig your heels in only to discover you’ve been here once before and you’re just tired of arguing and you’re heading down the path toward divorce which is at an all time high, 69% AND it doesn’t get better with marriage #2, #3 or more.
My Coaching style helps you move your relationship forward instead of two steps backward every time you walk in the door or “have” to deal with each other as a couple or even business partners.
You’ll have a clear understanding as to how to handle emotions when things get elevated.
You’ll even discover how to handle conflict without threatening divorce or termination just to get the attention of your partner.
You'll get clear on what you want for your relationship while creating the best relationship you’ve experienced.
If this sounds like your relationship...Click hereto schedule an (up to 60 minute) call with me today as my gift to you to start down a better path in your relationship because you have kids (real ones or furry ones) and your relationship matters.